First, you should think very hard of the reality of having a dog to join your life and your household.

Although physical and behavioral characteristics vary widely between individual dogs and breeds, there are also many anatomical and behavioral traits that are shared by most breeds of dog, including mixed breeds. Domestic dogs, for instance, are highly social species and do best with regular companionship, adequate mental stimulation and training, and physical exercise.

For some people, bringing a young, very energetic puppy or a large, powerful, assertive canine into their home may create problems. Once you have decided to get a dog, it is important to choose a breed that best fits you and your family’s current lifestyle.

Although we may be drawn to a breed’s physical appearance, keep in mind that appearances can be deceiving and that the personality, temperament, and behavior patterns of the new dog need to fit your life.

Most all puppies are adorable, but it is important to get a good idea of what the adult dog will look and act like when she grows up. Unlike humans, puppies grow to young adults in a matter of months, and by one to two years of age, when human infants are barely toddling around, a dog is pretty much a physically fully formed adult.

Selecting a new dog by focusing solely on the puppy’s appearance and behavior can set many new dog owners up for predictable trouble down the road.

Some people have fond memories of living with a certain breed they had as a child. All too often that memorable breed may simply not be suited to your current home and life. Furthermore, our memories of a childhood pet are often colored by the fact that we did most of the fun stuff with the dog while someone else had to deal with the training and the consequences of unwanted behaviors.

Much like in dating, during which you take into account the requirements for a long and happy relationship, consider what you are really looking for in a dog over the long term (remember, dogs live eight to twelve years on average) and also the capacity you and your family have to meet that dog’s normal needs.

Gauge how active you and your family currently are to determine the desired activity level of your new companion. A family that plays a lot of video games and enjoys watching movies, with little outdoor activity, should seek a dog who does not have a high need for physical stimulation and exercise.

How much time do you have to devote to daily walks, basic training, or brushing out a long coat of hair to avoid matting? What is your interest in organized canine activities, such as agility, obedience, or other dog sports?

Do you have small children in your family who might be overwhelmed by a large, powerful dog or who might not be old enough to trust with handling a delicate toy breed?

When we finally decided to own a dog, we should also commit ourselves to the responsibilities of having a pet entails.

It’s not all fun and games but you will be greatly rewarded if you take good care of your new dog. Unconditional love will be all yours for the taking.